Thursday, March 5, 2026

Why Do So Many People Worship Celebrity Idols Or: What I Wish I'd Said to A Writer on This Site

 

 

Sometime in the last month I read an article by someone who claimed they'd been betrayed by a boy band singer they'd worshiped growing up. He was a member of the Backstreet Boys, NSYNC, The Old New Kids on the Block – I didn't follow teen music growing up and for all intents and purposes its irrelevant. Because I've read some version of this exact article so many times on this site alone I've lost count.  All that matters is that this author felt betrayed when he learned to his horror, sometime in the few weeks, months, whatever, that this former teen idol was the one thing this site can not allow to exist: a Trump supporter.

I have a stock reaction to these kinds of articles that some of my readers are aware of particularly recently that I tried to share but this particularly open-minded induvial naturally chose to be a grown-up and block me. What I'd like to do is a write a more personal article about things I wish I'd said to him – not because he would have listened but because I think they are things that maybe some people on this site might be willing to here.

First of all, how did this author know this artist  - for the sake of clarity I'll refer to him as Kevin – had only recently become a Trump supporter? For all this man knows he's been a Republican his entire life. Perhaps he was an endorser of the War on Terror, the Patriot Act and the Surge. Maybe he believed Obama was born in Kenya and got in on the ground floor of the Tea Party. Maybe he donated residuals from his album to Mitt Romney's campaigns for President as early as 2008.  This author would have no way of knowing this  because its only within the last decade that we've insisted on every detail of our lives being posted on social media.

This is excusable: he himself said he was fourteen when he first heard Kevin sing as part of Backstreets Boys on The Block and its not like that any teenager during the 2000s would have cared what a person's politics were or had a way of tracking it down on Myspace. It becomes less excusable when he grew older but its excusable to read your values into people you admire whether they're true or not.

I myself made a blanket assumption that I should have known better by now: that this individual might be open to rational debate if I tried to reason with him. So I left the kind of extended comment I'm known for doing. It wasn't one of my more inflammatory ones: I just said that I didn't think celebrities owed their audiences anything other than performances, that virtue signaling cost nothing and that basically every time a celebrity says anything they cause independents to vote Republicans. I knew going in I was likely to receive pushback and be called names but I did this with my eyes open.

At first this individual was passive-aggressive saying he hadn't even bothered to read my comment because it was too long and by the way he didn't care what I thought. Then I did respond with sarcasm and expected that I would block him not long after. He actually did me the pleasure but not before giving the final word:

If I'm going to invest money into hearing a celebrity's music, I think they should share my values.

I must applaud him for actually saying the quiet part out loud. I've written similar articles in the last month about why I think celebrities are unqualified to talk about anything but acting and while many people supported me quite a few chose to burn me in virtual effigy, calling me all the horrible names they do when they engage in the kind of reasoned debate when they are called on it. My only surprise was that I was being attacked in what wasn't one of my more political articles even in regard to Hollywood.

But now here are some of the things I wish I'd said to this individual and indeed the far too many people online and off who genuinely seem to think this is a given.

First this just goes to prove the transactional nature that the young and left-wing people tend to think about basically anything in today's society. The institution, the system or the celebrity owes them everything and they owe nothing in return. This turns JFK's famous statement on its head: Ask not what you can do for your country, demand your country do everything for you.

The second point, related to the original statement is a rhetorical question: is it now a requirement for any figure, political, performer or online celebrity to have the values of the public be a prerequisite before they give their approval? Because I've seen the vetting process online and based on this site alone, no one could meet this group's standards because the Overton Window keeps moving leftward and even if an individual should pass every single test the mob could arbitrarily decide to reject them whenever they feel like it.

Third and this is the point of the article: why do so many people online take the word of any public figure at face value, particularly those in Hollywood or the performing industry? They don't give that benefit of the doubt to figures in Silicon Valley, corporate billionaires and they never trust politicians? The assumption is that if they say anything that is liberal or progressive it is purely lip service and of course if they show conservative values that is the true measure of who they really are.

But no one seems to consider the other side of it: why do so many people believe that if a celebrity posts support of a progressive statement in a hashtag or wears a button on a red carpet or shouts it out at an awards show that is the true measure of what they believe?

Actors, singers and to an extent athletes are performers which by its definition means that there's a degree of fiction in their public persona. (I'll stick with TV because that's what I mostly write about here.) Michael C. Hall isn't a serial killer; Jon Hamm isn't an ad exec in 1960s New York and Bryan Cranston isn't a chemistry teacher who cooks meth to provide for his family. They're actors first and foremost.  So if Mark Ruffalo speaks out in favor of defunding ICE or against corporate interests, why should I or anyone accept that is a true expression of his feelings?

All elected officials are performers to an extent. I've been watching representatives senators and candidates for local and higher office in campaign ads ever since I was eight years old.  And I'm pretty sure that by the time I was twelve I knew better than to take what a campaign ad said about their positions at face value, particularly when they said their opponents was bent on destroying America if elected. This, for the record, is a bipartisan affair: Republicans have been saying Democrats will do that if they are elected and Democrats have been saying the same about Republicans long before Trump started running for office.  I stopped taking what they said at face values long before I even reached by teenage years.

So if Bryan Cranston or Rosie O'Donnell or any of a hundred other celebrities say that they are loyal to the progressive cause and that they believe in working class values I have no more reason to take them seriously then I would if I saw Ted Cruz or Andrew Cuomo if they talked about the middle class? If anything I'd trust celebrities far less because they are much richer then me and almost certainly don't know nearly as much about politics as anyone whose been in public life for twenty years?

Because as I've said over and over and over (and will keep saying) if an actor or a singer were to shout Defund Ice or Free Palestine at the Emmys it costs them nothing to do so. They are hundreds of miles from the scenes of conflict surrounded by an enclave of people who share their values. If Bad Bunny were to say F--- Ice in Minneapolis where ICE actually was, he would get a very different reaction then when he says it at the Grammys or at the Super Bowl.  He knows that. Everybody in the room knows that. They're making the assumption – a very shaky one – that everyone watching them on TV does not know that.  Given the reactions of some of the people online, these stars may be correct in that thinking.

And let's not forget that celebrities are far more skilled in public relations and optics then someone whose been a DC insider for thirty years. I don't think for a second any statement they make in front of a camera has not been rehearsed in front of their agents half a dozen times before it comes out with the right amount of angst and sanctimony on a red carpet or film festival. Part of the gift of being an actor is being able to fake anything, even sincerity.  These people are performers and they know better how to rehearse and perform that as well as the ability to appear that they are spontaneous. I believe when an actor is shocked to win an Oscar or an Emmy after weeks of being told someone else is going to win it; when they make any statement that is political I'm certain that they've had a whole variation that they've been rehearsing for days, if not weeks.

If Billie Eilish had at the Grammies said: "Legalize heroin' or "stop the poaching of rhinos in Africa" I would have believed she was being honest about her support for those issues. Mainly because they are not applause lines and would no doubt cause everybody in New York to go dead silent and wonder "What is she talking about?"  By contrast when she said, "No one is illegal on stolen land." I have absolutely no doubt she rehearsed variations on that line countless times in the days leading up to the Grammies. It would have been a disappointment if she hadn't commented on it among her brethren.

Shouting out a cause or wearing a button costs a celebrity nothing. We all know that in the past decade that to take a position that is not political is considered even more of a betrayal to the liberal cause then if you were a conservative.  There's a contingent online that believes that it is more important to appear like you are in favor of all the right things rather than do anything to help them become a reality.  They really think that the causes of freedom are realized by protesting or wearing buttons or with a hashtag. I've found out that if you tell them that its actually harder then that they get very angry.

A celebrity's job has always been to entertain us, to help provide escape from the frequently dark and horrible reality around us.  Regardless of their political affiliation they have far less power to change the world that those in social media truly believe. Most of the people who think otherwise are immature, if not physically then emotionally. Celebrities are mostly adults. They should know better by now and they should certainly act that way.

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