Thursday, May 14, 2026

I Got My First Piece of Hate Mail As A Critic Today!

 

 

A few years ago when I wrote a piece in my blog where I was vague critical of a certain person on Jeopardy I received a personal explicit and fairly impressive email from that subject.  My reaction might puzzle some but would be familiar to any critic: it meant I'd officially arrived. I printed the email out and saved it as a badge of honor.

If you're a critic by definition you have to have a thicker skin then most which may be part of the reason I've been able to increasingly laugh off so many hate-filled comments I've received whenever I say something vaguely centrist over the last few years. So I was first shocked, then puzzled, then overjoyed when someone who was the subject of one of my TV reviews chose to post a comment on them.

The part that puzzled me was who it was. I've never been shy about certain writers and shows that I feel a withering, visceral contempt for and if Shonda Rhimes or Sam Levenson – two of my more frequent targets – had chosen to comment I would have expected it more.  What makes this all the odder is that the comment came from someone who is associated with a show that I've been writing about for about a year and a half personally and nearly three years in general terms well before that in some of the most overwhelmingly positive tones possible.

Those of you who've read my blog are aware of how big a fan I am of NBC's Homicide: Life on the Street,  a drama I would be more than willing to say was the best of the entire 1990s and certainly one of the greatest TV shows of all time. This is a consensus held both by contemporary critics and those decades later. In the fall of 2024, right around the time Peacock and Amazon began streaming it, I began to do a rewatch of it for my blog going episode by episode. These columns while not as overwhelming popular as some of the others I write about still do get a significant readership which I find impressive considering that this is a show that aired 30 years ago.

Now because I'm not the kind of writer who will kiss and tell  when people disagree with me and even write offensive things I'm going to be speak generally from this point forward. I'm not going to name the episode in question nor anything else associated with it.  What I will tell you is a few months back I reviewed an episode in less then favorable terms. It wasn't a pan and I didn't excoriate it the way I have been known to do Shondaland shows, series like Succession or Ray Donovan or the way I did Adolescence last year. All I said was that this particular episode wasn't at the usual high quality of most episodes, particularly given the caliber that I was used to from this writer. This opinion, I need to be clear, doesn't originate with me: other critics who've written about the show such as Tod Hoffman have spoken negatively about it and in far stronger terms. I posted it and I moved on.

Now earlier this morning I got a post in regard to this episode. Now if I am to believe what I see – and the profile of the individual gives me no information to confirm or contradict this – the poster in question wrote the episode I'm talking about. For the purposes of this article I'm simply going to call him X.  Roughly three hours ago in response to it he wrote:

Go f--- yourself. You have no idea what you're writing about.

Not Shakespeare but his point was made.

My first thought was: "My God! One of the writers of this show reads my blog!" Second reaction: "Thirty years later and he's still sensitive about criticism? From a guy whose only got up 1000 readers a  month ago?"

The third reaction, I'll be honest, was: "Did he not read all of the other articles I've written about Homicide for the last two years – many of which praise his ability as a writer to great extent? Or is he the type whose so sensitive to criticism that he ignores the raves and only acknowledges the pans?"

To be clear I said that this episode was weak only in comparison to some of X's other writing on the show both prior to this episode and well after it. I consider X's work on this show some of the greatest writing in TV history no question. And I thought I made it clear that the episode in question wasn't even that bad.  There were quite a few parts of it I found incredibly impressive and registered very powerfully with me.

And more to the point its not like every single piece of work a writer does on TV is gold a hundred percent of the time. This is true for many of the writers on Homicide both on the show and in later work. (I won't name them because I don't want to reveal who my secret admirer was even by process of elimination. To be clear his name's on the site himself but I'm not going to highlight it.) And to a larger point its true of every writer: David E. Kelley had his share of stinkers on The Practice and Ally McBeal; Howard Gordon had some lousy episodes on The X-Files before he wrote for 24 and Homeland and he had some bad ones there too and Aaron Sorkin is a genius but shows like The Newsroom were almost unwatchable. I don't expect perfection from every writer on every show; that's too high a standard even if they can, occasionally, meet it.

Again this episode wasn't a terrible one. Even a mediocre episode of Homicide was still better than 75 percent of what was on television in the 1990s. And even if it was a stinker – which it was not –  writers are allowed to have episodes of shows that don't work. I assume that it is through failure you find a way to improve on your next episode and this writer absolutely did in the episodes that he did that followed. Hell I'm going to be raving about X's work on Homicide in a few weeks' time, so its not like he didn't improve.

To be clear I'm not offended in any way, shape or form by X's comment. If anything I'm impressed that he found me writing on my column and cared enough to send a meaningless, irrelevant in the grand schemes of this website a post of such vitriol. It may just have been eleven words long, but in a weird way it means more to me than any long rave from anyone else could. (Although if you feel that way about my writing and some of you have made it clear you do, by all means send long meaningful raves. I welcome them.) Someone connected with something I love read my reviews and cared enough to tell me that I was a clueless idiot who had no idea what he was writing about. That's practically a love letter for a critic.

To be clear my opinion of X's work or Homicide has not altered one bit because of this note. It is still a great show and X is still a great writer. I will continue to write reviews of this show with the hope of earning praise from X or perhaps even more visceral condemnation of how clueless I am. Hey people called me horrible names when I suggested that Natalie Portman and George Clooney didn't know anything about politics. Compared to that X's comment was barely a glancing blow.

But this is a bigger badge of honor then almost anything else I've received as praise in nearly a decade of writing. To be clear it doesn't mean quite as much as the fact that at this point over a thousand people are reading my blog regularly but it matters in a different way. Its good when people appreciate what you write and if you're a critic like me, you're going to get comments like this. It's taken a while, but I've arrived. Let the hate mail begin in earnest. (That's a joke, but one that critics will understand.)

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