Wednesday, February 26, 2025

2300TH Article: Dexter Rewatch - Was Harry Dexter's Dark Passenger The Whole Time?

 

So much of the Television of the 21st Century is summed up as series that were centered on the White Male Antihero trope. While descriptive it omits that by an large you could just as easily add two words: Horrible Father.

Its not like the writers did much to hide that fact with all of these series; I suspect it may have been used as a contrast to the horrible things they did onscreen. Loving husband and father, monstrous human being. But anyone who watched the show knows that in part of the reason they were so horrible was because they were horrible as father figures and husbands.

We started out with Tony Soprano at one end; at the other was Logan Roy and in between we had so many other monsters, from Vic Mackey to Walter White doing horrible things ostensibly for their families (and losing them by the end of the shows); Don Draper’s indifference to his wive (s) and children and Marty Byrde demonstrating that he cared more about money then being a good husband and father even though he was faithful to them.

And that’s without counting how many dramas dealt with characters dealing with the fallout from a bad father. As Michael C. Hall knows all too well, Nathaniel Fisher was apparently such a neglectful father that it wasn’t until he was hit by a car that seems to have started to regularly spend time with his children. Everyone in Westeros was battling with issues with their fathers as much as they were for the Iron Throne. And it seems that perhaps the biggest force that drove everybody to the island in Lost had to as much with a horrible father as it did a mystic figure in white who seemed to be guiding them there. (And not to give anything away in this guide, but it turned out he was the victim of family issues himself.)

It's not that this era was entirely made of bad parents, of course. No matter how bad each day Jack Bauer had was he still did love his daughter. Tim Taylor was one of the best surrogate fathers because he was a great actual father. There were no bad parents in the Braverman clan and that carried out for three generations. And shows like Alias and Fringe were as much about a father trying to make things right with a neglected child as they were saving the world. But by and large bad fathers were the order of the day by the time Dexter debuted in 2006 and in large part it may have been for that reason that when the show was at its peak – the first four seasons – we would see Dexter trying to find a way to be  a good father, first as a surrogate to Astor and Cody, and then to his own child with Rita.

Fans of Dexter won’t argue the most important figure in his life was Harry Morgan (played by James Remar in the original series; Christian Slater in Original Sin). Dexter clearly spent the entire series based as much as Harry’s perception of him as anything else. He was, after all, following Harry’s code and as we saw in the first two seasons Harry was clearly recognized who he was and tried to force his evils into a constructive purpose. That’s why, after Season 2, we saw Harry as the face of Dexter’s moral code: even after he learned the truth about the lies Harry told him, he couldn’t escape Harry’s vision of him.

And I think its critical that Harry spent as much time chastising Dexter about what he couldn’t be as he was guiding him to seek his next target. In Season 3 when Dexter was dealing with Rita’s pregnancy and his friendship with Miguel Prado, Harry kept warning him about the dangers of both. In Season 4 when Dexter was dealing with being a husband and father, Harry repeatedly told him this was a good cover but he shouldn’t give in to the deception. The fact that this was just Dexter talking to himself doesn’t change the fact that it’s Harry saying these words: Dexter clearly knows in his heart that for all Harry did for him he never let him forget that he wasn’t normal.

Perhaps that’s why during the first few seasons Dexter keeps seeking approval from father figures he knows he should avoid. He spends as much time talking with Special Agent Lundy (Keith Carradine) in Season 2 because even though the man is charged to put the ‘Bay Harbor Butcher’ in prison, he admires the man’s way of thinking and there’s a part of him that wants his respect. In Season 3 he forms a relationship with Miguel Prado (Jimmy Smits) and while the two try  to be friends the fact that Miguel is a bit older than him does show him trying to find a way to bond with him that he and his father never could. Looking at the growth of their relationship, so much of it seems to be him trying to go on these father-son missions that Harry never approved of even as he designed a code. And in what is the greatest foe he ever faced Trinity (John Lithgow in an Emmy winning performance) the main reason he doesn’t kill him when he has the chance is when he learns Arthur Mitchell is ‘a husband…a father. He’s like me.” He wants to learn from Trinity because he thinks he can be the spiritual father he never had – and only when he gets invited to Thanksgiving he learns what a horrible father Arthur really is.

By that point in Dexter we already know that Harry’s paternal skills are, at best, deeply flawed. We know that by focusing all of his energy on his adopted son, Deb has spent her entire life feeling neglected by him and has essentially become a cop to win his approval. By the end of Season 1 we know that Dexter was the victim of a massacre that led to the death of his birth mother Laura Moser and that left him in blood for three days until Harry found him and took Dexter in. He chose to ignore the older brother Brian and eventually he became the Ice Truck Killer and has revealed those evils to him.

In Season 2, we learn even more about the malfeasance of Harry. We learned he’d hidden any record of Laura from Miami Metro and made sure there was no police record of him, something that Camilla went out of her way to bury. Then we learned that Laura Moser was actually one of Harry’s informants on a drug case and that by keeping her off the books, he ended up getting her killed – and that was because he was having an affair with her. Finally we learned that Harry had not died of blocked arteries but had committed suicide when he saw the evidence of who his son was for the first time – and couldn’t live with it. Dexter makes a break with his father in the aftermath of Doakes’s being framed as the Bay Harbor Butcher and from that point on, makes his own code.

None of that is inclined to think very highly of Harry even before Original Sin begins which covers much of the territory of the flashbacks of Season 1 when it comes to Dexter’s first kills. What is different is that the series spends as much time with Harry’s history as it does Dexter’s – and the picture it paints of Harry makes the viewer truly wonder for the first time how much of the blood that was spilled in Dexter is Harry’s fault – not merely for how he raised Dexter, but because we are beginning to wonder if the lies Harry told were not so much to protect himself.

Original Sin spends much of its run showing us Harry’s backstory through flashbacks. And it makes Harry look worse illustrating a man who is willing to manipulate Laura Moser for his own purposes and increasingly chooses to ignore his own wife. Much of this is no doubt out of the guilt he feels because of a story that we were unaware of in the original series. The Morgans had a child and Harry was watching a football game and when he did, his toddler son drowned in their pool.

It is implied that Harry threw himself into his work to escape his guilt and as a result seized upon an attempt to fight the cartels in Miami which led him to meet Laura and her family. While this was going on Doris (basically unseen to this point on the show) learned that it would take a miracle to have a child. As a result Harry chose to get closer to Laura and her family, crossing lines no detective should. This led him to meet both Dexter and Brian for the first time and it’s clear in these scenes Dexter is fond of him.

But by this point Harry is openly having an affair with Laura, even though he knows it’s wrong. Simultaneously he learns that Doris is pregnant with Deb. When he learns about this in episode 5 his reaction is not joy or surprise but a bizarre guilt. Was he thinking of leaving his wife for Laura and Deb was a burden on him made that impossible?

We eventually see that in fact Doris knows about the affair he has been having though not the full details. She will convince him to end it after Deb is born but he continues to see Laura long after it and push her to continue working with Estrada even though it is increasingly dangerous. Eventually he is spotted by Estrada’s men and that leads to their exposure – and everything that happens since

What is already clear is that Harry spends much of the first season refusing to admit who Dexter is and pushing violently back against his sons first kills. This already pushes back hard on what Dexter saw in him in the original series and we’re already seeing him spending much of the series trying very hard to make sure Dexter never learns the truth about where he came from.

This leads to one of the most telling scenes in Original Sin. At the end of Episode 5 Dexter goes to the headstone of his mother and recants a painful memory. He says that he once heard Doris talking about him around age 13, suggesting he get psychological help. At the time he thought Dexter believed she was afraid of him – now he realizes Doris did it because she saw something in him that Harry clearly never did.

This throws everything we know about Dexter into question. Throughout the original series we saw the signs of the caring man he could be but believes is a mask. We also see it in his scenes with Chief Stamper’s son when his parents come into fight over their divorce. It’s one of the first times we see Dexter where he looks completely natural, that’s he almost like a normal person. And combined with the scenes of Dexter as a toddler in the flashbacks – where he clearly seems to be mourning over dead insects and is kindly drawing a picture – we wonder something we haven’t in nearly twenty years – did Dexter become who he was not only because of what happened to him in the shipping container but because of Harry?

We know that Harry took Dexter in out of a sense of responsibility because of Laura’s massacre and pointedly refused to take in Brian. We saw the consequences of that play out in the original series and the implication at the time was that Harry had been able to tame Dexter’s monster and make it serve a purpose. But he also never told any details about Dexter’s childhood while he was growing up and every time Dexter showed signs of darkness, he essentially tried to control his urges by taking him on hunting trips.

We thought that was signs of a caring father. In the context of Original Sin, it’s starting to look like guilt. Harry felt a responsibility to Laura and took Dexter in and has decided to keep Dexter safe. As a result he put all his energy on Dexter as part of that responsibility and as a result Deb was completely neglected. This was clear in the original series and its just as clear in Original Sin, if not more so. Everything he has done, he says, is to keep his kids safe.

But is it? Had Harry been willing to have Dexter undergo counseling, Dexter could have gotten the help he needed. It would have taken work and might have been difficult but given what we know about Dexter as a grown up, not impossible. But if he had done so Dexter might have learned what he did when he went to a therapist in Season 1 (to kill him, of course) and that would have led to questions about who he was and why.

Those questions would have come back to Harry. And even if they hadn’t, eventually Doris might have asked those questions herself. Either way the cost of Dexter being a healthy functioning member of society might very well have cost Harry his badge, his marriage and possibly his family.

And it’s clear in a subplot that is going on during Original Sin that the consequences are deeper than he thinks. Early in the season he and LaGuerta find a case that seems the example of a young serial killer who is slowly moving finding his sweet spot. Harry and LaGuerta end up going on a trip to Tampa and find that their suspect is a child psychiatrist – who was murdered and his files were stolen.

It doesn’t come as much of a shock that one of the patients the doctor is seeing is Brian Moser, Dexter’s brother who will one day become the Ice Truck Killer. The file reveals some of what is canon and more – Brian not only knows about Harry’s relationship to Laura but that the two were having an affair. It also makes it clear that Harry is aware of this connection – and then hides the files from LaGuerta. And by the end it’s clear Harry has far more blood on his hands. He learns the truth about Brian Moser by the season finale when he sees one of the most recent victims was the woman who separated Brian and Dexter – on Harry’s orders. Then he encounters Brian on the top of a roof, who confronts him on what he has done – and he lets him go. Those who will defend Harry will say he’s not a killer except we saw he was more than willing to commit murder before his son interrupted him on far less shaky ground. Now he knows what Brian Moser is capable of and he lets him live. What happens in Season 1 is the consequences of it. He also has another chance to tell Dexter what happened and again he ignores it. The blood of everyone who dies at the hands of Brian and everything that happens to Deb is on his hands as well.

 

Even after we realize all of this makes him very directly responsible for so much about what Deb’s future will be its clear that at the end of the day Harry’s idea of being a good dad is buried in some old form. He’s never been a good father to Deb and he essentially orders Dexter to follow up on Deb, essentially handing parental duties of his birth daughter to his foster son. By this point it’s already clear that Dexter has an awareness of darkness in others that Harry is unwilling to see – and by that point, another massacre has taken place and many more people have died. (I’ll have more on that in a separate article on the end of the series.)

Christian Slater’s Harry shows a man who is increasingly afraid about what his son is becoming. And we see a man who doesn’t like that he’s created a monster. But is it because he has no taste for the kind of blunt justice Dexter dashes out? In Episode 5, after a procedural blunder on Harry’s part in court leads to a serial killer going free, Harry gets drunk and starts stalking that same man, clearly with the intention of killing him. Only Dexter’s intervention (humorously) leads to Harry not executing the man in cold blood.

By this point we don’t even know if Harry even meets the standard of a good cop. In the past he’s had an affair with his informant which got her killed. In the present he’s covering up for a serial killer to ostensibly protect his son but really to protect himself. And he refuses to even acknowledge that a man he’s known for thirty years is capable of doing horrible things – something that Dexter has figured out on his own.

At the halfway point of Original Sin, everything we thought we knew about Harry has been thrown into sharp relief and it is horrifying what we see. We’ve already known Harry wasn’t a perfect husband and he was a neglectful father to his birth child and lied constantly to his adopted son about every part of who he was. Harry has no stomach for the violence Dexter unleashed but we now know that’s basically just the pot calling the kettle black. Now there’s an excellent chance that even the one thing we all thought was the good  he did – training Dexter to follow a code – may have been done entirely to escape any responsibility for his own lies, and solely to protect the image he has among his fellow detectives and his family – including Dexter himself.

The first rule of the code that Harry taught Dexter was: “Don’t get caught.” Original Sin implies that applied to Harry himself as much as Dexter and that everything part of his parenting was designed so that Harry avoided responsibility for his own malfeasance and lies. That Dexter very likely became a monster as a result of this shows the deeper tragedy of the character and makes it clear that Harry, for all his guidance and support, was as bad a father as any we saw during the era of Peak TV. That his behavior was that of omission rather than cruelty does not make him any less a monster than Tony Soprano or Walter White – just another kind.

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